After my Nihongo class, I immediately went to St. Paul’s dormitory. Any idea what I did?? Haha, believe it or not. I am very much fascinated with the posting on the wall beside the dorm’s entrance. It’s all about MANNERS. Everytime I pass by in that area, since my first year in St. Paul, I get to read at least five manners posted in the wall. So, since I have few days left in school, I copied the half manners posted with the help of my keitai (phone). The rest, do your own search! Haha ^_^
Once again, I was reminded of my childhood days. I have to have manners. With all the education we get, if we don’t have manners, we are actually uneducated. This is only my opinion since for me the purpose of education is learning.
So, these are the manners I copied, read and reread it then evaluate yourself. I just did.
Greet everone you see with a smile
Use sir or mom as a sign of respect
It is impolite to bang the door, close it gently
Don’t remove shoes in public
Give respect to Manangs and Manongs
Let the lady or the elderly pass first
Use pedestrian lane and do not trespas
Always keep right in climbing the stairs
Gentleman open the door first before the ladies
Return what you borrowed on time and on the exact place where you found it
Before you get someone else’s things, ask permission
Don’t set your cell phone ringers too loud especially if you are in oublic
Do not eat while watching or listening to a program
Say please pass when asking something on the table
Join the games and activities in store for a party
Don’t pick flowers on prohibited places such as parks, gardens, etc.
Don’t forget to say thank you when someone helped or did a favor to you
When walking, don’t make too much noise by dragging your shoes
Avoid noise while chewing also don’t talk when your mouth is full
Don’t talk too loud in a library, there are people who need silence while studying
When looking for someone, say may I speak with, greet them good morning, good afternoon and good evening
It is also impolite to shout the person’s name being looked for by the caller
Eating is not allowed inside a church. It is impolite to eat while praying
Whispering or murmuring unnecessarily should be avoided
Avoid shouting or howling when you find the presentation amusing
Avoid leaving the auditorium or the conference hall while the speaker is leaving
When intorduced it is polite to offer your hand for a handshake
Respect the one sleeping, don’t make too much noise
Don’t forget to say please or kindly when asking favor
Don’t make any noise on your plate while eating especially when cutting your meet or scooping out your food
Don’t let the person who is calling hang in the phone too long especially if s/he is in the second line or in call waiting
Dress appropriately. Avoid dressing haltered blouse, short skirts or dresses. Remember that it is a house of God and not a party
If you have an important call on your cellphone, excuse yourself and move away from the people you are talking to
Don’t block the way. Give enough space for the people to pass or walk when you are in corridors or halls
When crossing the street or walking in the street, the ladies are often in the right side of the street
Clean your mess when and organize your things especially when you are sharing rooms. This shows respect on the person.
Talk in a moderate voice when talking with somebody especially when youa re near with each other.
When the person is not around inform the caller immediately and ask for any message, contact number and reason for calling and also his complete name.